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2003-01-27 - 11:52 a.m. SEX Do you even know the meaning of the word? Most people don’t that's why sex is so common. Sex to most guy's and as well girls is for plain pleasure. A lot of people whom loose their virginity become addicted to sex after the fact. A lot of girl’s start out as doing for their boyfriend and a lot of the time that breaks up the relationship anyways so they wasted it on someone the now hate. Guy’s are normally horny it’s how they were born but I'm not totally going to bag on the guys here girls are to they just hide it well and don’t lie you know you are. My opinion on girls being addicted to sex after their first time is the fact that they are not even trying to resist it. I have heard a lot of people who cry their first time because they are so disappointed in themselves and then they don’t have sex for years or until they get married. But then there are also the people who say they feel so bad everytime they do it but continue on doing it and they are the people who are addicted. And it’s not like I'm calling sex a drug or anything I'm just saying it can be addicting. It’s surprising how times have changed it use to be shocking for people to wait till marriage now it’s shocking for people to wait till they are sixteen years old, and most of my friends who have lost their virginity lost it when they were fourteen or fifteen. I find that sad because I think that it’s something special and you shouldn’t just have sex with the first person you meet which is what most kids are doing. And if you are set on having sex before marriage do it when you are an adult. And no I don’t mean when you are eighteen most people who are eighteen are not adults in fact most eighteen year olds that I know are less adult than me and i’m only sixteen. Eighteen to me is not the age you should be considered an adult. I think when you are adult enough to handle sex you should have a job, car, and place to live just incase a pregnancy happens, and you should be mentally and physically able to handle it. There are diseases out there and if you’re not adult enough you’ll just say fuck it and then in five years you could be dead. You could be mentally unable to handle it by the fact that you thought this person loved you and now they left you after the fact and then you take your own life and don’t kid yourself 7% of suicide is caused by this fact. And most of those people thought that they were adult enough to handle it. Babies are born with defects because someone was not adult enough to handle it. And these are things that happen everyday because people are thought to be adults but are obviously not, they weren’t adult enough to buy a condom, they weren't adult enough to stop smoking, they weren't adult enough to realize that their partner didn’t love them. Young adults these days are not responsible enough to handle any of this and in my opinion they shouldn’t be having sex they can’t handle the responsibilities. And for you who find religion in your lives one of your main reasons that's great. Even if I don’t find your religion to be the right one it doesn’t matter at least you are waiting till marriage which may I ad is very adult to do and so much smarter than ending up dead or with a child. Just because it’s cool at the time to have sex doesn’t mean that your going to think it’s cool later, when you are 30 you are not going to brag to your kids and friends “hey I lost my virginity when I was thirteen because it was cool to do”. So why do something you are just going to regret later right? And just because you love that person at that time doesn’t mean they will love you afterwards they will most likely leave you afterwards so why share something special with someone who is just going to leave you. And I say all of this in the perspective that you are not really serious about religion but as I said before religion is a good thing to have it’s something that keeps your head on strait if you are serious about it. I know it changes all my decisions. So there was my little insight about sex and adults take it however you want, in fact most of you who have lost there virginity will probably hate me for this, but I hope that you who still have your virginity took this into consideration especially if you were thinking about having sex.
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